Low slung pants
05.03.04 (11:04 am) [edit]
Ok, let's try this again. Don't you hate when you type up a supreme blog entry and ya f*ck it up somehow? I had mine already to go and decided to be a complete dumbA** and add a pic. I'm sure you can figure out the rest....
(Happy, happy, joy, joy... breathe. breathe. breathe.)
Ok.
I was surfing the "blog world" today when I came across a reference to low-slung pants legislation at Jewdez' blog.
I found this story at kplctv.com
[image]JennsAbsent_720563 348.jpg[/image]
[i]April 23, 2004
Reported by KPLC Staff
When it comes to teens and pants, how low can they go?
The issue is hot topic in the Louisiana legislature and one state lawmaker wants to outlaw low riding pants.
Made popular by rap musicians and hip hop culture more and more Louisiana teens, like those elsewhere often wear sagging pants.
But State Representative Derrick Sheppard wants lawmakers to ban people from wearing pants below the waist that reveal skin or underwear.
Sheppard insists its an effort to save the fabric of society and foster self-respect not police fashion: "It's time in our community in which we graduate from a level where you do whatever you want to do and it's all right with me to 'we shall be your brothers keeper'. And it's time not only to get our economic and political house in order but also our moral house in order."
The ACLU says the bill goes too far.
If approved, the penalty for low sung pants $500 and up to six months in jail.[/i]
My very first gut reaction was "WHAT THE FUCK!"
But then I started to think about it; I thought about my daughter, the clothes she wears, my parenting rights and the government.
I'm a pretty strict Mom. I don't let Ally wear whatever she wants. I figure it's my job as her PARENT to monitor what pants she wears. I want my daughter to look like an 8 year old, not a sixteen year old diva on TV. I don't want her to feel that she needs to wear Gap to be popular. I want her to be proud of herself, despite the clothes that she has own. It's my JOB as her parent to make sure that she learns right from wrong, how to dress successfully and what clothes are appropriate. NOT the governments. I'm very insulted by state represative Derrick Sheppard's assumptions that I can't parent my own children. Who is he to assume the role of the morality police?
It makes me so seething mad to think of this bill becoming legislation. What will they regulate next?
Her curfew?
Who she dates?
What kind of car I buy her when she turns 18?
These are all high-morality issues, will they try and control those as well?
Do the right thing. Vote for the representatives that will have your best interests at heart.
Rant over.
Leave a comment. Remember, be nice. :wink:
(Happy, happy, joy, joy... breathe. breathe. breathe.)
Ok.
I was surfing the "blog world" today when I came across a reference to low-slung pants legislation at Jewdez' blog.
I found this story at kplctv.com
[image]JennsAbsent_720563 348.jpg[/image]
[i]April 23, 2004
Reported by KPLC Staff
When it comes to teens and pants, how low can they go?
The issue is hot topic in the Louisiana legislature and one state lawmaker wants to outlaw low riding pants.
Made popular by rap musicians and hip hop culture more and more Louisiana teens, like those elsewhere often wear sagging pants.
But State Representative Derrick Sheppard wants lawmakers to ban people from wearing pants below the waist that reveal skin or underwear.
Sheppard insists its an effort to save the fabric of society and foster self-respect not police fashion: "It's time in our community in which we graduate from a level where you do whatever you want to do and it's all right with me to 'we shall be your brothers keeper'. And it's time not only to get our economic and political house in order but also our moral house in order."
The ACLU says the bill goes too far.
If approved, the penalty for low sung pants $500 and up to six months in jail.[/i]
My very first gut reaction was "WHAT THE FUCK!"
But then I started to think about it; I thought about my daughter, the clothes she wears, my parenting rights and the government.
I'm a pretty strict Mom. I don't let Ally wear whatever she wants. I figure it's my job as her PARENT to monitor what pants she wears. I want my daughter to look like an 8 year old, not a sixteen year old diva on TV. I don't want her to feel that she needs to wear Gap to be popular. I want her to be proud of herself, despite the clothes that she has own. It's my JOB as her parent to make sure that she learns right from wrong, how to dress successfully and what clothes are appropriate. NOT the governments. I'm very insulted by state represative Derrick Sheppard's assumptions that I can't parent my own children. Who is he to assume the role of the morality police?
It makes me so seething mad to think of this bill becoming legislation. What will they regulate next?
Her curfew?
Who she dates?
What kind of car I buy her when she turns 18?
These are all high-morality issues, will they try and control those as well?
Do the right thing. Vote for the representatives that will have your best interests at heart.
Rant over.
Leave a comment. Remember, be nice. :wink:
posted by: chicalookate (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (11:07 am)
I posted that story last week and though I hate low slung pants I think that the legislature could work on more important things.
posted by: chicalookate (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (11:08 am)
I didn't write my post very well. Sorry. Mind in too many places.
posted by: ScubaDiva (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (11:08 am)
If parents were doing their job and not trying to be their children's "pal" instead of their parent, this wouldn't be much of an issue. Government should not take over the role of parenting.
Now, on the otherhand, just because they make low-slung pants in size 28, doesn't mean you should wear them either. LOL
posted by: Daisymae (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (11:09 am)
It just doesn't make sense...there's always going to be someone out there that thinks they no best, and everyone should listen to them....kind of sound like my brother huh?
posted by: JennsAbsent (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (11:10 am)
Reply to: chicalookate
I'm interested in hearing the rest Kate. Which things would it work on?
I guess as a parent I just can't imagine someone telling me how to raise me child.
posted by: Ironwolf8766 (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (11:13 am)
I read about this story a while back and I posted it on my "serious" blog. I agree with you, about who's job is it to parent my child.
I dont know about where you live, but in my area, they already regulate the curfew for kids of school age. But your right, they need to but out.
posted by: JennsAbsent (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (11:15 am)
Reply to: ScubaDiva
I totally agree on the "Pal" theory Scuba. My cousin (who sadly is now gone) was a big pal to her daughter. I realize a lot of it had to do with the fact that she was sick and wanted every moment to be good for her daughter, but in a way she ruined her. At the young age of 12 Brittany looked more like a 17 year old. She dated (IMO) way to early as well.
Sorry. This must be a touchy subject for me!
posted by: JennsAbsent (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (11:16 am)
Reply to: Daisymae
Don't get me started on that subject. Ugh.
posted by: JennsAbsent (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (11:17 am)
Reply to: Ironwolf8766
Exactly. They need to kindly shut the fuck up about how I raise my kid. :D
I don't think we have a curfew here in town. But, I know many other cities in Texas do.
posted by: librarianguish (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (11:19 am)
Ahhh, the power of the mama grizzly bear!
As a parent of a 9 year old boy, I am of the same opinion - I can parent my child fine, thank you, I don't need your help. Unfortunately, I think there are a lot of parents out there that are disconnected from their children, or just downright confused about age appropriate dress. I'm amazed at how some of the girls in his 4th grade class dress sometimes!
Thank goodness he is a boy and could care less how he looks right now. He'd wear the same clothes every day if I let him (although he changes right away if he spills something on himself - good boy).
Now, if they really want to legislate something useful, how about advertising to children?!!!
Blessings from another mama grizzly!
posted by: Cyberpal (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (11:29 am)
This is what it all comes down to... Civil liberties!! When the gov t starts telling us what the fuck to wear then we are all done for!! Next it'll be what we can or cant eat, how much sex is allowed a day, what we watch on tv (already being done in some places!).. etc
I just think it's apity when politics begins to influence social issues which have no place in the rule of law!
posted by: JennsAbsent (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (11:31 am)
Reply to: librarianguish
Actually, I think I did growl a bit while reading that story! LOL!
Oh man, don't even get me started on advertising. Have you watched the commercials on nickelodian at 4o'clock lately? What about HBO "family"? I'm sure you know how frustrating this is! Grrrr..
posted by: chicalookate (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (11:31 am)
I just meant that there are more important topics they should be covering... clothing is not one of them. I am talking environment and the like.... This just seems a big waste of time and money. Becuase really who would enforce it?
posted by: JennsAbsent (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (11:32 am)
Reply to: Cyberpal
I couldn't have said it any better CP. I want to live in a democracy. NOT a dictatorship. We can't let them pass laws like this.
posted by: JennsAbsent (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (11:34 am)
Reply to: chicalookate
I see where your going with this. They're worrying about low pants and leaving things like the deteriorating ozone to chance.
Very good point.
posted by: Cyberpal (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (11:37 am)
Reply to: JennsAbsent
Yeah, but if only it were up to the likes of us....
posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (11:45 am)
I absolutely loathe that fashion...but I think it's silly that so much time is being invested into it.
If they do go through with this. I hope that they do something worthy with the money (cause you just KNOW they're gonna be cleaning house with this one). They should give all teachers in public schools a bonus.
posted by: chicalookate (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (11:46 am)
See I told you my mind wasn't where it should be. Glad you figured it out. :D
posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (11:47 am)
Reply to: JennsAbsent
Ahh you're in Texas, too? I grew up in Sugar Land. We had a curfew out there.
posted by: librarianguish (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (12:10 pm)
Let's see.....If we're all wearing low slung pants, then we'll be more exposed to the bad sun rays getting through the missing ozone....wait, instead we can all cover ourselves up with "nice" clothes and then we don't have to worry about the ozone layer, or our morals. Kill two birds with one stone, right?
Re: Advertising - we don't watch "TV" in or house. We have one, but get no reception. It's dedicated to movies, videos, and the PS2. My son does see some TV at his dad's, but not too much there either because he's too cheap to pay for cable. Whew! We're also working hard to teach him to be an intelligent consumer and critical thinker when it comes to advertising. So far, so good!
posted by: JennsAbsent (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (12:19 pm)
Reply to: SheSpecies
I wouldn't say that I "loathe" the fashion as a whole. Conventionally speaking, I wouldn't wear them. ONLY, because I've had 3 kids and the neighbors appreciate the courtesy.
I agree about the money, however I'm growing more skeptical of our gov't's ability to spend my money wisely.
posted by: JennsAbsent (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (12:20 pm)
Reply to: Cyberpal
Well, I can vote, Damnit! LOL! This makes me want to become more knowledgeable. I guess it WOULD have to come down to my kids, for something to open my eyes.
posted by: JennsAbsent (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (12:22 pm)
Reply to: chicalookate
I'm finally beginning to understand how your mind works Kate. Although I'm sure that I've barely scratched the surface. ;)
posted by: JennsAbsent (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (12:24 pm)
Reply to: SheSpecies
I grew up in a tiny town called "Palmer" about 30 miles south of Dallas.
Palmer didn't have a curfew, but then again it was a VERY small town with that mean ass small town PD to go with it.
posted by: JennsAbsent (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (12:25 pm)
PD = police department.
I just realized some people probably can't read MY mind. LOL
posted by: JennsAbsent (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (12:26 pm)
Reply to: librarianguish
LOL.. If it were only that simple!
Unfortunately, I can't say that we don't watch alot of tv. Because we do! Entirely too much, but I don't see that changing anytime soon. I guess I'll keep monitoring away...
posted by: librarianguish (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (12:33 pm)
I have a very strong personal loathing for television, but don't hold it against others who watch! I'm just happier listening to music or reading.
(and shhhhh, don't tell anyone, but I spend way too much time on the computer......)
posted by: JennsAbsent (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (12:39 pm)
Reply to: librarianguish
My adult ADD requires that I be addicted to ALL forms of media. :D
Tv. Check
Radio. Check
Cable. Check
Internet. Check
:D
posted by: chicalookate (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (12:42 pm)
You might not want to go much deeper. Could be scary.
posted by: librarianguish (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (12:58 pm)
And I bet there's multiple streams going at the same time, too.
Sadly, I must be off to work now.
I shall return, I like it here!
posted by: JennsAbsent (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (1:13 pm)
Reply to: librarianguish
have a great day at work! Yes, please come back soon, it's fun chatting!
posted by: qutepie2 (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (2:06 pm)
I agree with Scuba. This wouldn't be an issue if parent's were being parent's and not trying to be "cool", you know.
I'm a tough parent. My 5 yr. old can't do ANYTHING compared to other kids his age. And, I'm only going to get stricter as he gets older. Then when my daughter gets old enough I will probably be harder on her then I am on him. It's our job. I don't need someone looking over my shoulder telling me how to raise my child. I want them to grow respecting people and themselves. I don't want them growing up to be spoiled brats who run MY household.
Okay. I'm done. I can go on forever.
posted by: JennsAbsent (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (2:13 pm)
Reply to: qutepie2
You sound just like me hun.
Another thing is video games. We don't even own one since they stopped making games for the regular old nintendo. I saw a commercial last night on espn (while watching poker championships. :D) about one called "Hitman". Its literally a guy that goes out killing people. It's a VIDEO GAME.
What in the world is going on with these game people?
posted by: JennsAbsent (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (2:15 pm)
Reply to: chicalookate
lol Kate.. Im not skeered. ;)
posted by: dumblondegirl (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (2:23 pm)
Well said woman! It's our job as parents to tell our children what is appropriate to wear.
Don't they have better things to do?
posted by: SASHASMOMMA (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (3:25 pm)
How do you REALLY Feel?? Just joking:) Sometimes its not so bad not having kids....when you come across crap like this. I do agree with you. Its insane. I refuse to buy Playstation games...I think they are all terrible. We will drag out the Nintendo and play Donkey Kong and have a blast!!
posted by: SSWarrior (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (3:46 pm)
yeah the world is getting crazier and crazier every day before long wont be aloud to do anything
posted by: qutepie2 (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (4:05 pm)
Reply to: JennsAbsent
Don't I know it. We did get my son the Nintendo Game Cube and the only games he is allowed to play on it are the Mario games. No violence. No sex. No blood.
posted by: JennsAbsent (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (5:37 pm)
Reply to: dumblondegirl
You think I need to send them a to-do list?
posted by: JennsAbsent (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (5:39 pm)
Reply to: SASHASMOMMA
I love Donkey Kond, Mario, Tetris.. ohhh and Frogger!
Why can't they keep making those kinds of games!
posted by: JennsAbsent (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (5:45 pm)
Reply to: SSWarrior
That's what I'm afraid of SS.
posted by: JennsAbsent (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (5:47 pm)
Reply to: qutepie2
Yea, my nephews have gameboys and nintendos but they are little so the games are age appropriate. It's the exposure when they are at a friends house that I worry about! Hopefully, I'll teach them enough at home that the outside won't be that much of an influence. (Dream on Jenn...)
posted by: qutepie2 (reply)
post date: 05.03.04 (6:59 pm)
Reply to: JennsAbsent
We both have the same dream, girl.
posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 05.05.04 (11:53 am)
Reply to: JennsAbsent
Oh, I think I've driven through Palmer before.
posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 05.05.04 (11:54 am)
Reply to: JennsAbsent
Hehehe I know what PD stands for. ;-)
posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 05.05.04 (11:56 am)
Reply to: JennsAbsent
Well, as a female, I do wear low rise pants, but that's entirely different. I think that that pants-hangin-off-the-butt fashion is just plain sloppy looking. I saw a guy lose his pants that way and trip. He looked like he was about 2 inches from cracking his teeth on the cement...that's just dumb.
posted by: JennsAbsent (reply)
post date: 05.07.04 (4:11 pm)
Reply to: SheSpecies
Really! Where are you from?
posted by: SheSpecies (reply)
post date: 05.08.04 (5:24 pm)
Reply to: JennsAbsent
Yes really! :-)
I'm from all over the place. But I grew up in Houston. And I'm in Boulder, Colorado right now.
The guy I saw bite the big one when he tripped on his sagging jeans was some dude in Denver. He was downtown at the 16th Street Mall, too...so he ate it in front of everyone. I am probably mean for saying this, but I was sort of happy that everyone saw him do it. Maybe they'll realise what a fucking stupid fashion that is!
